The Approach: Advanced Macking (Part II)

Here are the initial steps of a very effective ice breaker (with the above in mind of course):

The next time you see a girl you like, get a buying signal, then DO NOT HESITATE — REJECTION MAKES YOU HOTTER (how this is so is explained in later pages) –  assume the sexual state (read on in later pages to learn more about this state and its advantages), then:

a) walk up to her calmly, hand her your business card, give her a chance to read it

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b) when she looks up, ask her if she’s married.  If she says yes, say ok, have a nice day . . . and walk.  If she says no, ask her if she has a boyfriend.   If she says yes, say ok, have a nice day . . . and walk.

c) If she says no to both questions, ask her if she likes guys or girls.  If she says guys, ask her if she wants to go get a drink right now for like 10 minutes.

d) If she says she can’t, then just walk with her a bit and speak to her about basic things, where she’s from, what she does etc.  After about 10 minutes, say goodbye . . . and walk . . .

c) walk a few steps, then turn back around and ask for her number.  If she says, no — then say, have a nice day . . .and walk.

d) If she says yes, get her number and call her that evening.  Meet up with her as soon as possible.

That’s it.  Do this over and over and you will have great success. Any rejection you get out of this procedure, will be well worth it and go VERY FAR in calibrating your behavior for the next approach.  The first couple times you try it, it will be hard to break through your protective shell of anti-social inertia.  But when you do this even a couple times — no matter what response you get –  it will soon be almost impossible NOT to do it effortlessly and without hesitation.

You should be approaching single, lone women.  Trying to approach women in the company of others — her friends or yours — is not advised.  This is because women want sex just as much as men, but they are much less willing to demonstrate that desire in the presence of others.

Your internal state when approaching women should be one of sexual enthusiasm — horniness, basically.  This state staves off panic in a way that no other does.  When you see a woman that strikes your fancy, imagine having sex with her — picture it and try feel the desire and lust.  This sexual state plus the realization that she wants sex as much as you will be the two most important things to your success.  So don’t forget them. 

When a girl says she likes confident men it means she likes guys who remember the above passage, period.

The Approach: Advanced Macking (Part I)

–For those of you who hate rejection, there is a good way to avoid  it some of the time.  Before approaching a woman, see if you can get a semi-clear “buying signal” from her.  Look at her.  If she holds your gaze for a beat, give her a smile.  If she gives you a smile back, there’s your signal.   It is now your responsibility to approach her if you want anything to happen. 

 –But rejection really shouldn’t bother you that much.  In fact the whole purpose to macking is to develop the skill of maintaining your confidence in the face of rejection.  A real man goes after a hot woman when he sees her and doesn’t care if she rejects him.  He just make sure he gives it a try.  Your confidence will grow with each attempt.  It has nothing to do with success.  This is hard to believe, but so true.

–The balls to approach is a turn-on to women.  It basically gives off the vibe, “I go after women who I think are hot and I don’t give a damn if I’m rejected, because it’s her loss.”  This vibe cannot be faked.  It can only come after a number of cold approaches.  It is a sign that you are a dominant male, and not some wimpy ass who couldn’t protect her in a moment of danger.  Remember this when you hesitate to approach, thinking: “I’ve got nothing to say”.  Find some words and approach.  It will impress her, even if she has to reject you because she has a boyfriend or something.  It will also build that “vibe” that women find irresistible.

–If you haven’t gotten laid in over a month and wish to do so, stop masturbating until you do.  It will make the difference in those moments of hesitation that cause opportunities to slip through your goddamn fingers.  When you are over-satisfied by your own hand, you will more easily talk yourself into inaction when it comes to making the necessary moves.  Who once said, “he who hesitates masturbates”?  It should be said the other way around:  “He who masturbates hesitates.”

–One of the first errors a guy makes when approaching a new girl is that he builds her up in his head, thinking of her of some GREAT PRIZE.   This attitude gives off the vibe that she is of greater value than you are, and you will quickly see her respond to this vibe you are emitting by disrespecting you.  The correct attitude to have in an approach is that you are giving her the OPPORTUNITY OF A LIFETIME.  That is to say, if she fails to be attracted to you, the loss to you is small, but the loss to her is HUGE.  Why is it so huge for her?  Well, because you’re a cool dude.  And the ratio of cool dudes to hot girls — and this is a scientific fact — is about 100 to 1.

Nevertheless, hot women are used to being placed on a pedestal, and while they are quite comfortable there, they are also bored and creeped out by dudes who put them up there through his supplicating behavior.  These women have a secret wish to “meet their match” in the realm of perceived value.  In pursuit of that, some even prefer abusive men to overly nice guys.   They reason that punks are at least more interesting than good boys.  Indeed, it seems that at least some of these women would actually prefer to be mistreated than to be ass-kissed.  Of course, all abusive men are really just lowlife, insecure fuckers compensating for their insecurities by acting like brash assholes.  But the lesson to be learned from these losers is that a confident front — even a bullshit one — usually wins over a meek one.

Today’s Wisdom: On Breathing

About breathing, I am fondly remembering the part in Trojan’s long poemnovella, entitled:  “The Snake of Indetermination:  Keeping the Focus of Attention on Your Breathing as This is the Only Route to Moral Being.”

In that work, Trojan explains that ”to breathe properly is the single reason for all other moral failings.  Therefore failing to breathe properly is a VERY SERIOUS, IMMORAL ACTION!!  Breathing normally is THE ONLY THING YOU ARE HERE TO DO.”  

Mike Trojan found this fact out through trial and error.  But if you are they type that wants a unicorn to fly to you and whisper it to you while you are on a beautiful, deserted island, during a warm, breezey night, you will want to live as though it is true.  I promise you, this will happen to you after about a week or so.  But please, remember what I am telling you here.  Stop trying to get your “goals accomplished”  until you are assured that not only have you been staying on top of your breathing (continually evaluating it), but that your breathing has dramatically normalized (full, consistent, regular breaths).  Under these more optimal breathing-conditions, your “goals” will turn into “passions” before your very conscious eyes.  So from here on, I want you to focus on NOTHNG BEFORE YOUR BREATHING!!  NOTHING IS MORE IMPORTANT.  You may allow yourself to get distracted, but remind yourself as often as you can that all other things are NOT REALLY YOUR JOB.  Your life is just something you do WHILE YOU’RE BREATHING not vice versa.  You are here to establish a normal breathing pattern under the pressures of and pleasures of semi-awake consciousness.  The breathing you are looking to possess here is unforced, instinctual breathing — you are already set up to do this automatically, but the rise of human consciousness interferes with it.  So now one has to be constantly focusing on it.  If you must, do nothing for a day or two until you can get your breathing to go on as regularly and and as copiously as is normal — try doing small tasks while 1) concentrating on your breathing, 2) breathing normally, and 3) smoothly conducting the transaction.  This is not as easy as you might think.  If you fail to successfully get a bag of popcorn, for example, while mantaining a normal breathing pattern, then you are not yet ready for your hopefully more complicated life.  Stay out of life, until you get  these small tasks down, then you can move back into your life slowly.  It will probably take a few days if you’ve been living your life as most of the human population is, ie, under the false presumption there are goals more important that mantaining a normal breathing pattern.

MANUAL I: The Original “Whore” Manual — Introduction

Editor Note:  According to Mike Trojan, the word “whore” means “the man who squeezes the juice from life and lives up to his full potential in the process.” 

Introductory Remarks:

The directives here stated imply a single woman. But keep in mind that I am speaking more precisely of “woman” in the general sense of the term. There is a good woman out there for you. She can see you through every woman you interact with, from your mother to your prostitute. She will come to you quite easily after you’ve mastered three things:

A NON-WHORE RELATED TALENT OF YOUR CHOOSING.

This can be anything from Skiing to Accounting. (This must be a talent for something other than being a mack.) You must stick with it until you master it. Read the book, “Mastery” for more info on how to do this. Mastering this talent means it can make you a living!!

MANUALS I-XII.

Manuals I – XII will give you guidelines on how do develop not only a “good” personality, but a personality that women will find irresistible — i.e., the personality of a true WHORE. That’s right, follow these principles along with your talent and the third skill (listed below) and all women who get to know you will eventually want to pay you for sex. I guarantee it.

THE VERY WHORE-RELATED SKILL OF ATTRACTING ANY WOMAN YOU WANT WHENEVER AND WHEREVER YOU DECIDE TO DO SO.

This takes some work that is independent of simply understanding the manuals or of just being a master of a talent. This requires you to actually attempt to pick up hotties when you see them. But understand that the secret here is to keep from being the hunter. Mastery can only come with large amounts of practice and, yes, some huge, embarrassing failures. Get over it! If you fail to develop this skill, you will be a slave to beautiful women for your whole life. Even worse, you’ll probably have to settle either for unattractive women, prostitutes, or your hand to get off. The trick to this skill is in making yourself as physically presentable as possible to the broadest range of women, and then — most importantly — learning a concise way to demonstrate your personality to a woman that has never seen you before. Beautiful women don’t really need this skill to attract men since most men are willing to explore an intimate relationship with a woman solely based on the woman’s physical attractiveness. While some women are like men in this respect, our research suggests that the majority of hot women need more than mere physical beauty to be present in a man if she is to consider exploring an intimate relationship with him; she must also somehow get to know the man’s personality and then deem it “good.” In fact, most — the more intelligent/more attractive ones — will actually prefer a cool dude who’s not that physically attractive to a less cool dude who’s much better looking.

Manual XIII deals quite extensively with developing this second crucial skill so check it out.

Also, keep reading the other manuals until they transform you into the ULTIMATE WHORE. After all, there would be no advantage in learning a concise way to convey your personality to a woman you’ve never seen before, if your basic personality falls short of what she deems “good” in the first place. Dig?

INITIAL CONSIDERATION: Study your interaction with your mother. Are you overbearing? Are you mean to her? Are you cutting her off? Are you telling her what to do? Are you listening to what she has to say? Are you talking “at” her and not “with” her? Are you being impatient, moody, letting it all hang out in a bad way? No big deal if you are — but if you answered yes to any of these questions, you’ve found a critical reason for your inability to relate to women. You secretly want them to be quiet while you unload your bullshit. Damn son!