–For those of you who hate rejection, there is a good way to avoid it some of the time. Before approaching a woman, see if you can get a semi-clear “buying signal” from her. Look at her. If she holds your gaze for a beat, give her a smile. If she gives you a smile back, there’s your signal. It is now your responsibility to approach her if you want anything to happen.
–But rejection really shouldn’t bother you that much. In fact the whole purpose to macking is to develop the skill of maintaining your confidence in the face of rejection. A real man goes after a hot woman when he sees her and doesn’t care if she rejects him. He just make sure he gives it a try. Your confidence will grow with each attempt. It has nothing to do with success. This is hard to believe, but so true.
–The balls to approach is a turn-on to women. It basically gives off the vibe, “I go after women who I think are hot and I don’t give a damn if I’m rejected, because it’s her loss.” This vibe cannot be faked. It can only come after a number of cold approaches. It is a sign that you are a dominant male, and not some wimpy ass who couldn’t protect her in a moment of danger. Remember this when you hesitate to approach, thinking: “I’ve got nothing to say”. Find some words and approach. It will impress her, even if she has to reject you because she has a boyfriend or something. It will also build that “vibe” that women find irresistible.
–If you haven’t gotten laid in over a month and wish to do so, stop masturbating until you do. It will make the difference in those moments of hesitation that cause opportunities to slip through your goddamn fingers. When you are over-satisfied by your own hand, you will more easily talk yourself into inaction when it comes to making the necessary moves. Who once said, “he who hesitates masturbates”? It should be said the other way around: “He who masturbates hesitates.”
–One of the first errors a guy makes when approaching a new girl is that he builds her up in his head, thinking of her of some GREAT PRIZE. This attitude gives off the vibe that she is of greater value than you are, and you will quickly see her respond to this vibe you are emitting by disrespecting you. The correct attitude to have in an approach is that you are giving her the OPPORTUNITY OF A LIFETIME. That is to say, if she fails to be attracted to you, the loss to you is small, but the loss to her is HUGE. Why is it so huge for her? Well, because you’re a cool dude. And the ratio of cool dudes to hot girls — and this is a scientific fact — is about 100 to 1.
Nevertheless, hot women are used to being placed on a pedestal, and while they are quite comfortable there, they are also bored and creeped out by dudes who put them up there through his supplicating behavior. These women have a secret wish to “meet their match” in the realm of perceived value. In pursuit of that, some even prefer abusive men to overly nice guys. They reason that punks are at least more interesting than good boys. Indeed, it seems that at least some of these women would actually prefer to be mistreated than to be ass-kissed. Of course, all abusive men are really just lowlife, insecure fuckers compensating for their insecurities by acting like brash assholes. But the lesson to be learned from these losers is that a confident front — even a bullshit one — usually wins over a meek one.
